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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

My Grandad

This is my Grandad, Robert Lee Campbell.
He was always a formidable strong man, who commanded respect and a slight tinge of fear from most people.  He is my grandad; Lovable, adoring, and always laughing. He lives in North Carolina, far from us in Florida, and visits are very few and far between.  When we do visit an hour is about all he can really take, really concentrate and focus. I have been with my husband for 5 years, and this winter he met my grandad for the first time.  He was unable to come to our wedding, too frail to travel, so we made him his own wedding book with photos.  His wife, Nadine, says he showed it off to the nurses and others when he was ill in the hospital.  Nadine takes great care of him and we couldn't appreciate that more.

I hope he is proud of me. I think he is, and I think he is proud of my dad and the man he has become.    I know it is hard for my dad to se his father wither away before our eyes, but I know he appreciates the time he gets to spend with him.  We wish he were closer so we could have more hour long visits with him.  But alas, I think this is where he will stay until the end.

To my grandad, I love you!!

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Christmas Spirit

This is the first year in many that I think I have felt what one might call the "Christmas Spirit."  I have no real reason to have not felt this feeling in the last few years. I feel like there has been some selfishness on my part causing me to not respond to holiday cheer, but instead to focus on me and probably Steven.  I spent eons focusing on others, with not too much in return.  I admit I have felt under-appreciated at times, but not neglected in any way.
So to have this feeling crop up this year feels good.
A study was conducted in 2007 on developing a way to measure Christmas spirit. Full article here: http://www.emeraldinsight.com/promo/xmas/a_measure.pdf.
"Ultimately, people with strong, positive feelings and judgements about Christmas would have a high level of Christmas spirit that influences the conduct of Christmas activities in a happy and cheerful manner."

I am not religious and therefore, do not celebrate Christmas in that manner.  I do however, embrace the idea of good will towards man, and that Christmas sees an increase in this goodwill.  
I have increased my tipping at restaurants, wanting to provide some additional funds for wait staff at this time of year, bought magazines by those door to door saleskids (sucker I know), and bought little trinkets in an effort to say "thank you for all you have done this year." It has made me feel good, and increased my holiday outlook. I define my holiday outlook as, the world is a better place, and will continue to be a better place as long as people "pay it forward" in their Christmas spirit. Spreading Christmas like a virus I suppose.


So Merry Christmas to all, or Happy Holidays, whichever your prefer!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Mark Zuckerberg TIME person of the year for 2010

The title says it all, the article says it better.  I have new insight into who Mark Zuckerberg is, which was falsely portrayed by The Social Network, and how his quirky thought process, is much like most science minded individuals, who don't always see things like the majority of people.  I deal with this a lot at the Museum.
But this quote from the article stuck out and I wanted to share it:
"However much more authentic the selves we present on Facebook are than they were in the anonymous Internet wilderness that came before it, they still fall far short of our true selves, and confusing our Facebook profiles with who we really are would be a terrible mistake. We are running our social lives over the Internet, an infrastructure that was not designed for that purpose, and we must be aware of the distortions it creates or we will be distorted by them." ~Lev Grossman


http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,2036683_2037183_2037185-1,00.html



Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Leslie's Favorite Things

Watched an always funny How I met Your Mother and Barney mocks the Oprah's favorite Things.  Barney's Favorite Things are given out to McClaren's bar attendees.  Made me think, what would my favorite things be?
Well let me tell you...in no specific order, and I don't necessarily have these things...

Tiffany's Knot ring:









Apple iPad
Adobe Lightroom

The Keurig coffee maker. Ok so I don't even like coffee, but it makes hot water.  Could I make hot water in the microwave, yes, on the stove, yes. But I need the gadget. :-)

Wii Black.. I think this might be coming for Christmas (fingers crossed)

Beautiful venetian champagne flutes...from NapaStyle

Ann Taylor Knit Endless Metallic Scarf (Infinity Scarf) I am horrible at wrapping my scarves, this would fix that!

Well, that's all for now. I think it is enough don't you?




Monday, December 6, 2010

The DMV aka HELL!

Why I hate the DMV:
This morning, I tried to log onto the DMV's website to renew my drivers license online.  It responded with a statement that the last time I renewed I did it online, therefore I had to go into the office to get a new license.  First problem, this was not true, exactly. I did renew in 2005 online, however, I had come in person to change my name in 2009.  So I learned the system does not take into account if you had been in person any other time, just the time you renewed. FAIL!

They do not automatically renew your license when you get a new one, it does not change the expiration date. I got a whole new id with a new name. FAIL!

Procedure at the office: go in, wait in line for an hour to get your documents checked and get a number to wait some more to meet the actual person who will check your documents again and scan them (Note: do not use sensitive information as your verification for address (mail)).  And ultimately get your license.

I thought I had all my paperwork, (DL, birth certificate, marriage license, 2 pieces of mail, SS card) waited an hour in line to realize my SS card was NOT in my wallet like I had assumed.  Lesson, assume NOTHING.  Double check.  You must go to jail, do not pass go, do not collect $200. Sucka! I will say that the wretched lady at the desk laughed! Laughed! when she took my number away.

The DMV is highly inefficient. While standing in line I saw about 50% of the people turned away do to incorrect or insufficient paperwork. They only have 1 person checking documents and giving numbers yet about 8 stations to process the licenses.  The longest line is the initial check in. There should be at minimum 2 people at the front desk for this.  Once you get past the front desk it's pretty fast and unnecessary  to have that many people in the back. By shifting resources they could be more customer friendly.
Waiting in line for an hour, and then told you don't have something right, (b/c it's always changing), and they wonder why people get so mad.  Hello? You just made them wait for a 2 minute interaction that ended up in them being sent away, just to have to come back and oh...stand in line again! You should get credit somehow for standing in line the first time.  There is no sense of urgency, and the lady was ridiculously slow. She definitely wasn't concerned with how long people were waiting. She could have cared less.  No business would survive if they ran like the DMV.  People would not go there b/c of such horrible customer service. I hate that government agencies are allowed to ignor industry standards for queueing and customer service. FAIL!

Some of things that I saw people turned away for:
An out of country student turned away b/c he had an international drivers license instead of one issued by his home country (India). Not valid, go away sir!

A teenager with his mom who didn't have any mail with their physical home address and his or her name on it.  They had a PO Box and all of their mail goes there. But you can't use a po box.  Go away kid!

A woman whose name had already been changed via marriage, and she had her birth certificate, which didn't match by name of course to every other piece of documentation.  She did not bring her marriage certificate. They sent her away.  On the form list it says if you are changing your name bring the certificate or court decree, not after you have changed your name you still have to bring it.  Luckily I was wary and brought my certificate. She also had her passport with her new name, which would have sufficed if it hadn't already expired.  Not good enough. Go away lady!

A college student from Atlanta had lost his ID and needed to get a duplicate.  He didn't have his birth certificate.  You still have to have all of the documents to get a duplicate (although he could have probably done that online).  His parent(s) have all of his documentation in Atlanta. So sorry...fed ex it here. Go away college student!
It is easier to get a duplicate SS card than it is to get a duplicate DL. Crazy!